If your scared to confront him make your own POF webpage. Tell him you didn't know how to address him on it and this was the best solution to get his attention. When they boyfriend is going on POF and such..means he is looking for discreet affairs and is quite bored with the relationship and is looking to have his needs met for casual what is for him is sex and nothing emotional. Every few months or so I caught him doing something similar.
Then when he freaks out on you tell him thats how you felt and you wanted him to understand the anger and hurt you felt. I say you can forgive someone but never forget what they do to your heart My boyfriend done exactly the same about a week ago, I found him on a dating site so I made an account myself as someone else and messaged him, he even sent me his number, I'm still with him now I don't even no what to do You made an account knowing that your boyfriend didn't know it was you ok And he gave you his number ( hello) he gave you his number to a random girl who wasn't his girlfriend. However, he was exchanging phone numbers with these women.
If he begins a retort sentence that has the word TRUST in it, ladies, just give him the look. You might care a great deal for this man but his blatant disrespect more than suggests he cares less for you than you thought…or hoped.
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TRUST is the biggest thing in a relationship with out trust it's nothing. Nope He has just broken the vows before even making them. He claims he doesn't know why he does it, he is bored and that he would never actually act on any of it.
Iyou can do better, marrying a guy or having children with someone you will say I trust. Less than a year after that, I caught him with a POF profile, and a few other "hook up" websites as well as ad's posted on Craigslist for sexual encounters.
Why some men still keep their online dating profile active.
After finding love and a serious relationship some men still keep their online dating profile active.
Hi Norma2, welcome to the forum, watch the dates...years ago was the posting date of this forum. If you are telling anyone it is normal to have a cyber anything, I think you need to PM me to cleanse your own relationship and tell me what you are on this site for and why you are okay'ing a man cheating. I think the guy is a real **** for posting on POF and trolling for - whatever while he is involved in a relationship with you. But I would definitely use this as a jumping off point for discussion with your boyfriend. But I would definitely give him a taste of his own medicine and do not be afraid. If not, dump him if he shows you that he really does not appreciate you. I seriously think this is an addiction and some type of emotional issue. At this point I've truly had enough and am ready to move on.
This doesn’t mean that he’s going to cheat on you or break up immediately but it can’t be a good thing. I think it’s reasonable for you to feel uncomfortable with this and also reasonable for you to ask him to stop. See if subtlety is appreciated--if he gets the hint or if he just winks back.
At the very least, this action is a serious sign of disrespect. If you’re not comfortable confronting him, I have other recommendations. Or simply cut and paste this article in the bathroom, next to the sign: “Please put the toilet seat down when finished.
The explanations for this are pretty lame but these men always make the argument that there’s some good reason to keep their profile active.
If it's not a passive-aggressive way of telling me we have broken up, what is it?