To be honest, I completely forgot about it, and for a long time, was not even sure what month we met in. I figured out our anniversary when something unrelated reminded me that it might be coming up.
See, last week was the anniversary of a short residential program I participated in, where I got to leave the country and study foreign direct investment in developing nations.
(This question was posted publicly, so I don’t believe I’m violating his privacy).
My biggest worry is that you have only dated men because you are more attracted to men, and that now you only want to date a woman for convenience/societal acceptance reasons.That way, when my blog shows up, they will say, “HEY! (For example, an article about “how to handle hearing your boyfriend is bi” but not “ Jay told me about this video called “Gay Men Will Marry Your Girlfriends.” It’s this video where all these gay guys claim that if gay marriage isn’t allowed, they will respond by marrying straight guys’ girlfriends. While I was thinking of questions for the survey, I asked Jay whether he would still pick to be bi if he could choose between bi, gay, or straight.That is exactly what I was looking for, even though my question was super weird and obscure! If you haven’t seen it, you can check it out above. The gay guys go through all the reasons why they would make better husbands than straight men. Apparently, that was an easy question for him- he said he would definitely still want to be bi.Sorry to disappoint anyone, but I am not the kind of person who sentimentally remembers such dates.I did not write down date in the hopes that, in a year, we would be a happy couple, reminiscing about how we first met. To put it succinctly, I did not remember the date of our first encounter, so much as I ‘discovered’ it.